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What Women Want... in Bed

By

Pauline Little

It is an age old question: what do women want during sex? We are a bit difficult to figure out (heck, some women don’t even know what they want during sex). As a woman, I hate to see fellow women with bad sex lives. So to help you (and us) out, here is a list of 5 things your woman wants you to do during sex.

Take it slow
Well, this is what nobody wanted to hear. But it’s true. You have to take it a bit slower to really pleasure a woman. Jumping right into sex might be great for you, but generally women are looking for a little bit more in terms of foreplay. When a man takes his time, he creates this sense of anticipation (which is hot!). And remember, just because she is moist does not mean she is ready to go, but it may be a sure sign that you are on the right track. Trust me, if you are doing it right she will let you know when she’s ready.

Pay attention to her whole body
Most men know the traditional erogenous zones: the clitoris and the nipples. While rolling your tongue along those areas will feel amazing to her (oh but it does!), she will love it more if you pay attention to her whole body. There are many sensitive areas on our bodies just begging to be caressed – like the inner thighs, ears, and lower back. Slide your hands down her thighs. Gently nibble her ear.

Make some noise
It sound’s cliché, but you should really try to talk to her during sex. No talking about the weather though. Take your time to give her personal compliments. Simple things like “You’re beautiful,” or “Damn you’re sexy,” won’t do here. Try to tell her why you think she’s beautiful. She may have a great butt or beautiful eyes or a perfect waist. Whatever it is, make sure you compliment her on it. It will make her feel great and want to make you feel greater.

Don’t stop there with the words though. Women love to know when they are pleasuring you. So if she is doing something phenomenal, make sure you let her know. Moan with delight. Tell her it’s perfect. Make sure she knows that you are going wild because of her.

Make it rough
True, women are the gentler sex, but we’re not all that delicate. So make it rough! Trust me being a little bit more aggressive in bed won’t hurt us. In fact, most women like their man to show dominance in sex and take control. So, ravish her! And it doesn’t have to be anything as far as S&M. Just try taking her and turning her into the position you want. Pull her hair a little. Bite the nape of her neck (gently—it shouldn’t be too hard and it should only last a few seconds). She’ll be begging for more.

Be Creative
So you have finally figured out what turns her on. Fantastic. But if you keep doing the same things in bed, that will be a major turn off for most women. If you want to turn a woman on during sex, you will have to keep it creative. Try new positions or locations for your lovemaking. Keep it from being formulaic, and your partner will love you for it.

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