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Blow Jobs!

Reasons Why You May Not Be Getting Them

By

Elizabeth Smith

So, you’re in a good relationship. Everything’s going fine, but she just doesn’t want to give you a blow job. You’re not alone my friend, but perhaps knowing some of the reasons why your wife or girlfriend won’t give you a blow job can help you to change your situation a bit.

You Smell!
This is probably the number one issue for us surrounding putting your penises in our mouths. If you have bad hygiene, it’s just gross! Sure, a guy might shower everyday, but by the time night falls and his pants drop, things might not be looking too rosy down there. So do your woman a favor and clean up a bit—this will improve both the smell and taste so she won’t be completely turned off. And please don’t forget to trim down there! No girl likes to put her mouth anywhere near an uncontrolled jungle. It’s just unpleasant.

She Might Not Like Semen
For some women it’s the taste, for others it is the thought of millions of little sperm swimming down their throats. A lot of us just do not like to swallow. This is not a very hard situation to fix. Promise not to come in her mouth (And keep that promise. No surprises!). A simple warning before you are about to climax should work. You could also try improving the taste of your love juice. Certain foods have been rumored to sweeten the taste of semen—pineapple juice, kiwi, watermelon, and berries. All of these foods can go towards a milder and sweeter tasting product and more pleasurable BJ experience for her. Of course you should also take care to avoid things like beer and cigarettes. Talk about bitter. Even if she still isn’t comfortable swallowing, no swallowing is still better than no head.

She’s Insecure
This shouldn’t be a surprise, but a lot of us are insecure about our abilities. If your partner does not give you head as often as you would like, it may be because she is not comfortable with her skills. Everybody has to start somewhere though. So the next time she goes down on you, try giving a little guidance. Tell her how you like it, tell her what feels good, and don’t hold back when she does something right. Women love compliments. Even if it wasn’t mind blowing, never make her feel bad about her ability. Just keep coaching her along (Hey you may even get more head out of it).

She Doesn’t Like Force
I have yet to meet another woman who actually likes to have their head pushed down while she’s doing her work. So don’t do it unless you’ve cleared it with her first. It will probably just make her gag, especially if she isn’t ready to deep throat you, and it will earn you more blow job rejections in the future.

You Don’t Reciprocate
If you aren’t willing to spend a little time pleasuring her, why should she bother doing it for you? Be a giver as well as a receiver. Trust me, you like oral sex? Well a lot of us do to! Don’t look at it as a chore; you will most likely get closer to your partner in the process. Who doesn’t want that? And if you initiate, the next time you ask for oral sex she will be much more likely to oblige!

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