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5 Things

Your Man Wants to Hear in the Bedroom

By

Tramaine Cavil

In the bedroom, sometimes it seems like you should have a checklist to mark as you go, when fumbling through the process of making love.  Did I kiss his neck the way he likes it? Check! Did I kiss his body long enough? Check!  Did we do it in his favorite position which just happens to be my least favorite position? Well, maybe tomorrow night.

Sex can sometimes seem like a list of tasks but the point of it all is to ensure that you are providing your partner pleasure.  The reward for you is that generally the more pleasure you give, the more pleasure you receive in return.  But that’s not the only trick to getting a better performance from your man. Men love physical pleasure but they also love the mental stimulus you provide them just as much. The size of their ego can sometimes dictate the quality of their performance. It’s not just necessary to stroke his body the way he likes, you must also stroke his ego, so you can get the performance that YOU like.  Here are 5 things to tell your man in the bedroom that will boost his ego and his performance.

“You’re So Damn Sexy!”

Saying, “You’re so sexy” makes a point, but throwing a ”damn” in the mix makes an impact.  Like women, men can sometimes be insecure about their bodies.  When we’re not in shape, we don’t even like looking at ourselves naked, let alone allowing someone we’re trying to impress see us with all of our flaws exposed. Letting us know that in your eyes we’re sexy goes a long with allowing us to feel more comfortable in the nude with you.

“Wow”

If you want to give a quick and easy ego boost to a man before things officially get started, as you’re kissing him passionately, reach down into his pants and say, “wow.”  It’s wow with a period, not an exclamation point.  Kind of like you’re saying it to yourself and it wasn’t meant for him to hear.  But he heard you and he’s now more ready than ever to pleasure you.

“Hold Up! Hold Up! Put it in Slowly”

This will go straight to a man’s head because he thinks that the reason that you’re asking him to slow down is not because you’re not ready for him, but because of his large size.  It’s no secret that men can be insecure about their manhood, but as long as you think we’re big, we’ll think we’re big as well.

“Oh my God!”

During the act of sex, it’s always nice to hear an, “Oh my God!” when things start to get good, especially if we know that you haven’t been to church since childhood.  Not only do we take this as a size indicator, but it also allows us to know we’re working it right. We get great pleasure out of pleasuring you so the more you show us that you like what you’re getting, the more we’ll give to you.

“I’m Sore!”

For some strange reason, men find it rewarding when a woman tells us that they’re sore after having sex with us. Again, it’s an ego booster because we attribute it to our size, but the reasoning behind your pain bringing us happiness, I’ll never understand.  Kind of makes me wonder how we’d feel if you ended up in a wheel chair for a day or two.  I would like to think we’d feel extremely bad for you but I also think that a high five with one of the fellas might be snuck in at some point as well.

As you see, the way to a man’s ego is mainly through the bulge in his pants.  The things you say in the bedroom don’t have to be true, they just have to be flattering.  Your only job is to make it believable and make it seem sincere.  With some guys, sincerity won’t be hard to come by, but with others, you’ll be thankful for the time spent in drama class back in high school.  We’re not dumb ladies, we’re just simple. Some of us know we’re not as big as you claim us to be, but if you tell us enough times, we’ll semi-believe it!

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