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5 Communication Tips for the Bedroom:

What to Tell Her

By

Patricia Corey

In the next few moments, you will become privy to a secrets that none of the guys at work will ever reveal. Even over beers or a game of pool at your local hang-out, few men will get down to the “real deal.” They might make veiled references to their macho techniques, sing the praises of their handsome bodies and manly physiques, and even boast about how little sleep they got last night because . . . wink wink . . . you know why. All of that is true, but let’s face it: no one converses about what women want to hear once you’re in the bedroom.

That’s a real shame. After all, seduction happens as much in the mind as it does in the body. You could channel Don Juan to your heart’s content, but if you are a bumbling idiot whenever you open your mouth, your polished technique will have all the appeal of a sweaty gym sock. Keeping a few choice ideas in mind as you woo your favorite lady will catapult your love-making to a new and exciting level.

1. Praise her beauty. In whatever way you feel most comfortable, let her know that she is the most ravishing creature in your world. Even the most beautiful women have insecurities and it’s always nice to know how you see us through your eyes.  Flattery can definitely get you somewhere.

2. Be specific. If there is a certain part of her anatomy that particularly excites you, spend some time verbally dwelling on it. Here is a clean example, but you can spice up your language in whatever way is appropriate within the context of your relationship. “Honey, I absolutely love each and every curve of your body. Your body reminds me of a perfect work of art.”

3. Tell her a story. Let her know the details of when you started thinking of being with her today, and recount to her in detail what got your motor going. Tell her, “Honey, I was trying to concentrate on my work but all I could focus on was the thought of seeing your face when I got home. Honestly, I almost left work early.” By letting her know that she has been in your thoughts  throughout the day, how can she help but to be flattered? In addition, her sense of anticipation and excitement about what is to come will be greatly heightened.

4. When you begin to be romantic with each other, that’s the time to praise her as a lover. This should not be manufactured or contrived in any way, as women can see through sexual artifice as unfailingly as the sun sets in the west. When she touches you just right, communicate in words how much her love and attention means to you.

5. Finally, when the love-making is over and the two of you are basking in the after-glow, resist the urge to sink into a light doze. Instead, tell her your favorite part of the experience you just shared. In whatever way seems right, let her know that sex is only the outward sign of a deeper relationship. Perhaps ask her how she feels or if she needs anything or give her a relaxing back rub. Whatever your method, the key here is to show her that she is the center of your universe: before, during, and after love-making.

The physical acts you do together are certainly a way to be close. Use the power of words to stroke her mind as well. By worshipping her with language, complimenting her, giving her feedback on what you like, and reaffirming her importance to you, the bonds of your relationship will be strengthened exponentially. This is the secret no one wants to tell. Follow this advice and your sex life will never be the same again.

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