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How to Change a Man
By
Tramaine Cavil
Since the beginning of time, women have been changing and molding their men into their ideal partners. It’s as if every woman is born with a personalized blue print embedded in their mind of what their man should be. Seeing the male species as unpolished and unmolded figures that roam the earth, women take on the challenge and the responsibility of smoothing out and defining a man’s rough edges. Their only hope is to make him more cultured and into their ideal mate. To help with this process, our creator provided women with a magical spell called beauty, to daze men and to soften them up on the insides. This allows women to have an easier time with the rougher edges and with the overall molding process.
As little girls, women get practice defining their man while manipulating Ken into treating Barbie as a princess. From a distance, we see our young daughter playing house with the neighbors little girl and we see innocence. But in actuality, it’s two young ladies collaborating and sharing ideas on what a man should be.
Boys on the other hand are too busy rough housing the neighbor’s kid and throwing rocks at moving cars to practice for their future relationships. I’m no expert, but these may be the reasons why men accept women for who they are (because they don’t know any better) and why women work so hard at changing their men.
For the ladies that haven’t mastered the fine art of, “How to Change a Man” due to a lack of collaborating neighbors, here’s a list of steps to stimulate change in your man.
Share Your Thoughts
Before taking more extreme steps, always start at step one which is communication. Share your thoughts on how you feel and what you would like to have changed. Be extremely open and honest and provide reasons why you want change.
Nag
If simple communication doesn’t work, take out your most feared weapon and nag him about it. Sometimes men don’t understand what they’re being told the first 100 times. Every now and again, nag number 101 or 102 does the job.
Start to Question Your Relationship
If nagging fails, begin to question his behavior out loud as if to say, “I’m not sure I can be with someone for the rest of my life that does…” Men are a stubborn bunch and sometimes we need an eye opener to get our attention.
Withhold Sex
Speaking of eye openers, withholding sex is something that will definitely grab our attention. If you put this plan in place, make sure that he understands that you’re withdrawing sexually because you’re unhappy. By day 3, most men are ready to surrender and will do whatever you want.
Leave Your Man
This is a tricky one because you truly have to be willing to lose him; but if the change you’re seeking is important enough, then this is definitely an option. Some men are thick headed, and sometimes you have to leave a man for him to understand that you mean business, and that the change you seek is important to you. If he loves you, he will make the change and get you back.
Relationships are truly about appreciating someone else for who they are and for what they bring to your life. We seek out those that we are compatible with knowing that we will never find someone that we agree with 100% of the time. Appreciate, love and accept your partner for who they are because who they are is what attracted you to them in the first place. If you see an opportunity for change to better your relationship, then by all means, seek it out together. Just take it easy! We’ll work with you on a little change but when you start talking about renovation is where we draw the line.
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Article Summary
Most women want to change their man and all men don’t want to be changed. Read our relationship advice to help you change him any how. It’s for the better!