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Bar Scene!
Do's and Don'ts
for Women
By
Tramaine Cavil
Do Establish Eye Contact
Women generally don’t approach men so it limits their ability
to control who they hold a conversation with on a Saturday night. Because of this,
women will find themselves talking to and ignoring guys in which they have no interest.
If you don’t have the courage to approach a guy, all you have to do is establish
eye contact for 2 full seconds. Most guys just need to the green light to give them
the courage to approach you.
Do Get To Know Him Before Giving Out Your Number
Your
number isn’t to be given out like Certs at a bad breath convention. Remember, a phone
number given to the wrong guy can result in you paying a price. If you always wondered
what it felt like to be stalked, give your number to the wrong guy and he’ll provide
you with an experience of a life time.
If you have an interest, take some time to converse and get to know him a little.
If you feel comfortable and you’re in a safe high traffic area, ditch your friends
for a little while so you can focus on each other. If you let a person talk long
enough, they will show you who they are. At that point, you will know if he is deserving
of your number.
Do Give A Man An Opportunity
Alright ladies, this is an important one.
We know that us men have put you through a lot and we know that you have your guard
up for valid reasons. But what’s important for women to know, is that each man you
meet cannot be held accountable and judged for the decisions and actions of other
men in your past. We are all individuals and will offer you our own unique experience.
When you’re out at the bar, be cautious but let down the walls that prevent a man
from getting to know you and you from getting to him.
Don't Be Harsh, Let Him Down
Nicely
This doesn’t happen all the time but some women feel the need to belittle a
man that approaches them. Maybe it’s a natural reflex obtained from dealing with
random jerks that have approached them over the years or it may be simply that the
women are just major B’s. Regardless of the reason, women, yes ALL women, should
take a man’s approach for what it is, a compliment. There was something special about
you that encouraged him to work up the nerve to come say hello. If you’re not interested,
simply say “I really appreciate you showing an interest but I’m just focusing on
my girls tonight.”
Don't Go Home With Him On The First Night
Does this even need to
be said? Ladies, are we still struggling with this one? Have we not learned our from
own lessons or learned from the lessons of others? Unless your intentions are to
simply get some man love, never sleep with a man on the first night. He will present
you with the opportunity and he will want you to sleep with him, but if he is truly
interested in you, he really wants you to say no. I promise you, he will respect
you so much more if you do say no.
Besides some jerks, men treat women the way a
woman allows themselves to be treated. If you allow him to sleep with you on the
first night, he will gladly oblige. If you say no, you’re not that type of lady,
he will switch gears and treat you with more respect. He’ll be more cautious with
you and will soon ask you out on a date. If you never hear from him again, you know
that he never really had a true interest in you and you saved yourself from a bad
experience.
Don't Be A Hater!
You can almost see her from a mile away. The next time
you’re scanning the bar, look at all the happy faces of all the people enjoying themselves.
Look at all the people laughing, high fiving, and hugging. Look at the men and women
in deep conversation making love to each other with their seductive eyes. But once
you see the one person that looks out of place, you have uncovered…the Hater!
You
can usually identify the hater because she’s usually standing close to a man and
a woman in a deep conversation with her arms crossed. She looks borderline upset
but it’s more of a frustration look. You may see her occasionally tug at her girlfriends
arm as if to say, “lets go”. She wants to head to the bathroom, the other side of
the bar, to the dance floor, off the dance floor, or anywhere that prevents a man
from talking to her girlfriend.
Don’t be this woman! Just because you’re not getting
the attention that you’re craving doesn’t mean you have to ruin an opportunity for
your girl friend. Be patient and allow your girl to decide if she wants to get to
know the guy. Besides, if things work out, he may just have a friend for you.
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Yes, even the bar scene has Do’s and Don’ts. Read our dating advice to help you navigate the bar scene successfully. You’ll be better off for it!